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This is YOUR Life- You Can Change It
You know that “thing” that you’re super into? Maybe it’s kinda weird. It’s not something most people have an obsession with. Maybe your interest in it makes you feel a little crazy, or like an outsider. What if that thing is your calling? You’re way more into it than other people because you’re supposed to be! What if that thing is where you find your tribe? What if that thing is where you discover your purpose in life? Whatever it is that lights you up- I don’t care how weird or unusual it is- run full force toward it. Your uniqueness is where the money will be. It’s where the…
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20 Ways to Be Happier Right Now
There’s no magic formula for making your life all sunshine and rainbows, but there are a lot of ways to feel at least a little bit happier right now. How to be Happier Right Now: Go for a walk Take a hot bath Drink some hot tea Get some exercise Call your mom Call your best friend Take a nap Eat that donut, cupcake, slice of pizza you’ve been craving Buy yourself something on Amazon Light a fall-scented candle (sure, even if it’s not fall) Hug your dog (unless your dog is like mine and is a giant who will physically injure you every time he gets near you)…
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Post-Valentine’s Day “Be Less Cynical” Challenge
So yesterday was Valentine’s Day. Usually I’d make some jokes, post some things about how stupid this day is, etc. But here’s the truth: I’m not actually that cynical. I pretend to be because it’s easier to make jokes than to sit with my feelings. The truth is I still believe in love. I believe good marriages do exist (I also believe in divorce when it’s necessary, but that’s another post…). I would love to come home to flowers and chocolates and get to spend time with my person. I’d love to get to feel special. But since I don’t have that, I make fun of Valentine’s Day instead. …
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21 Thoughts Going In To 2021
Hello, 2021! Okay, we’ve made it past our first full week of 2021… and let’s be real, it’s off to an interesting start. However!! No matter what’s going on in the world, 2021 CAN and WILL be better than 2020. So I jotted down a few thoughts for you, for myself, for everyone. These aren’t magic, but small things kept at the front of your mind can have a huge impact! So here we go…. my 21 pieces of wisdom for 2021: Rest is important Do more of what sets your soul on fire Play more Other people’s opinions won’t pay your bills Be more responsible with your money Perfect…
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My #1 Must-Have Skincare Item
Skincare is self-care I think we can all agree that skincare is important… unless you’re a dude, in which case you can pretty much use anything at all on your skin with zero consequences BUT if you’re a woman, a good skincare routine is critical. *This post contains affiliate links, which means I earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Learn more here* My favorite product? Roc Daily Resurfacing Disks. One side is soft, one side exfoliates, and they are full of skin-loving ingredients. They’re supposed to cleanse your skin while diminishing fine lines and wrinkles- and they actually work!! I have a hard time believing claims of…
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The Problem With Perfection
Perfection. Striving for it is not as great as it sounds. Actually, striving for perfection is, more often than not, unhealthy and counterproductive. Wanna know why? Perfection is unattainable Unless you are Jesus (which you are not), then you are not perfect. Nothing you ever do will be perfect. Accept this. Move on. It’s unrealistic I’m not a head-in-the-clouds kind of girl, so why would I waste my time focusing on…
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Why I’m Okay With Not Being Who I’m “Supposed” To Be
When I was younger, I had this picture in my head of how my life was supposed to go. I pictured myself as a sweet, Susie-homemaker type with 2.5 kids, a dog, and a picket fence. Sure, I’m a mom and I have a dog and I’m a nice person- but I’m not sweet and innocent, I’m not a Pinterest mom, I’m divorced, and I laugh at the most offensive jokes. I’m more of a cynical, rough around the edges kind of girl. I go to church, I love God, but I’m far from being an ideal example of a great Christian. There are multiple reasons I turned out the…
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The Struggle With Being Too Independent
One day I asked my mom if she thought I didn’t attract men because I exuded too much masculine energy. Not surprisingly, she said yes. Don’t get me wrong- I’m not saying I’m masculine. I’m not (also not exactly feminine either, but I’m certainly not manly). This didn’t offend me, nor did it surprise me. I already know I’m not like other girls. And no, I’m not implying there is anything wrong with being like other girls, so don’t even start going off on a tangent with that… *This post contains affiliate links, which means I earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Learn more here* Anyway, I…
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Stop Texting Like You’re In Love With Someone You Just Met
Stop texting like you’re in love with someone you’re not in a relationship with. Dear everyone, This is creepy. And weird. And creepy. Don’t do it. You know that person you met online but haven’t actually had a date with yet? Yeah, they’re not your “baby.” They don’t want you to be overly concerned with their needs just yet. You don’t need to text them every five seconds. Picture this: someone slides in your DM’s. You’re open to getting to know them, but you’re not sure just yet whether or not there’s something there. Then this person- let’s call him Adam- starts love bombing you.…
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Give Yourself A Break
I’m giving you permission to give yourself a break. Seriously- do it. No guilt, no shame, just an extra bit of rest. Trust me here- sometimes you need it. Fun fact: I skipped the gym on Monday night and took a nap instead. Whaaaatttt?!?! I know, I know. I broke my “never miss a Monday” rule. But man, was it necessary. I struggled with my decision on whether or not to go, and guess what happened? I felt a lot better and I did not suddenly gain 10 pounds. We all have flaws, and I’m well aware of mine. Probably one of my biggest flaws is that I put…
